OBSESSED BOYFRIEND RAPED HIS GIRLFRIEND AT THE GRAVEYARD

A young lady who is 21years old from Seshego Zone 8 in Polokwane,fell in love with a young man who currently stays at Seshego Zone1 who is 26 years old.What actually attracted her to him was the fact that he is a man who took care of himself and the mere love of him coming from Burgersfort, she heard that man from the location are good in terms of TLC for their women.

She met him early this year around April during Level 5 lockdown,the man was great, cool and fun to be around as you know new love drives you at all corners of the world,to doing all the exciting things that are expressable and  unturnable.

The next day when the sunrose his mindset went south,he went to her house late night hit the hooter at her yard countless times not considering the neighbours peace of mind or family,yet disrespect her by shouting at the gate calling her to come out for a conversation,by so doing seeking attention from her. She will come out to hear him out.

He will drive off on a high speed to one of his friends places that he claimed to have ownership of,he will get intimate with her countless times without her permission. Sometimes he will go with her to isolated areas, wanting to explore his manhood and to touch her in uncomfortable way.

When he did this forceful intimacy a countless times what came into her mind was "hope that one will change".The thing that caught my attention when I spoke with her was when she said "we're blind sided by this thing called love it happens when you see yourself as just an object you think you ain't worthy of love that's when you give into such nonsense". 

One of the things that came into her mind when they go and relax at one of properties he said he owns them was "paranoia",but he will still have guts to take her to the bushes to quench his desires,yet not considering her feelings. She came into realisation that this relationship is not right and she never reported the previous incidents because she had hope that it will get better and well.

He had this obsession by making comments like "you're my woman, I own you because you belong to me". The other day when she was with him,he decided to take the north route that lead him to the inner side of the graveyard,to accomplish his mission of intimacy in the graveyard by the way that day it was like epicenter/climax of life and as if it was the end of the world so she said. She felt like a dirty person who didn't know where does the sunrise or sunsets.

He attempted to repeat the same incident again,only that day it was unfortunate for him to violate her. By then she was aware of his tendencies,the way he looked at her,his eyes were like a ghost haunting a lost soul and wants to attack.

 What happened was "he pulled my seat backwards and his right leg was coming my side,I knew he was going to force himself unto me and I ran out of the car". He chased her until she flew in the bushes and that incident happened late at night in the graveyard.

Around July this year,he attempted to murder her because she was interested in someone,the other thing was that he felt some sense of ownership of her life,fortunate enough she told her family about the attempted murder and the situation was controlled.

She was also scared to report the cases because she knew his capabilities,plus threats of being killed they kept running around her life. She is currently living under the shadows of fear and insecurities that he might be stalking her on a daily basis. He is around living his best life.

What other women should know is that there is no cure in being silent and it helps to talk even though you know it hurts deep inside.She will be visiting a social worker/psychologist soon so that she can find healing.